A COMMON MISTAKE THAT MOST WOMEN MAKE, ESPECIALLY AT THE BEGINNING OF RELATIONSHIPS!

 Hey Readers,
 
I wanted to quickly share a pitfall that
I've seen lots of women make,
especially when they've first met a guy
that they like.
 
Make sure you don't make this mistake
because not only will it dramatically cut
your chances of dating success, but it
will also drive you crazy...
 
I was answering a comment last night.
 
The reader wanted to know whether
or not she should text a guy she hadn't
spoken to in a while.

When I was responding, something
stood out:
 
She was reading WAY too much
significance into this one text message.
 
I mean... she was thinking about if she
texts him and he responds one way,
maybe they'll start dating...
 
And if he doesn't respond, then she'll
be crushed forever with embarrassment
and her chances with him will be gone
forever.
 
She's not alone.  In fact, I would say
this is one of the most common (and
most damaging mistakes) women
make with men, especially in the
beginning of the relationship,
which is:
 
They jump WAY ahead and imagine
crazy scenarios and freak themselves
out.
 
 
Guys, on the other hand, when they're
meeting a girl or starting to date her...
we take it one step at a time.
 
The relationship is what it is at the
moment.  We think about the
relationship exactly as it is at the
moment.
 
... And if it's good... we're HAPPY!
 
We don't care where it's going...
 
We don't need to imagine things that
could happen or what you're thinking.
 
If we're happy with a relationship
as it is... we're happy.
 
So here's my thought for today:
If you are thinking about making a
"move" in your relationship, think
one step at a time.
 
Don't start planning your wedding
day after your first date - that's
a guaranteed way to scare him
out of his mind.
 
I could go on as to why women
are prone to this type of thinking,
but I wanted to keep this
short and to the point.
 
Hope it helps